Pros and Cons of Wedding Day First-Looks

First-look wedding photos have become one of the most beloved wedding trends in recent years! Yet, for many couples, deciding whether to have a first-look session can be quite challenging. Should you stick with tradition? Or opt for a more unconventional approach? Do you want that breathtaking moment when walking down the aisle? And what about actually making it to cocktail hour? With so much to consider, it’s crucial to weigh the pros and cons of having a first-look on your wedding day. This will help you anticipate what to expect and make the perfect choice for your special day!

WHAT IS A FIRST-LOOK?

Before delving into the advantages and disadvantages, you may wonder, “What exactly is a first-look?” A first-look is when the couple sees each other before the ceremony. It’s a planned moment in the wedding day schedule where the couple meets privately, away from family and friends. The groom awaits, facing the photographer, while the bride approaches from behind to tap his shoulder, leading him to turn around and see his stunning bride for the first time. The first-look isn’t just a moment; it’s a chance to get creative. There are countless ways to make this moment unique and special for the couple

PROS OF HAVING A FIRST-LOOK

First-looks help save time by capturing a majority of the photos before the ceremony. Following the first-look, bride and groom photos, wedding party shots, and family portraits can be efficiently taken. Completing these three main portrait sessions before the ceremony allows couples to enjoy their cocktail hour or reception promptly. With fewer photos to capture post-ceremony, there is less pressure to rush through the photography sessions.

When the bridal party and family are not present during the photoshoot, it not only saves time but also creates a more comfortable environment for couples. Being alone with just the photographer and videographer for the bride and groom portraits reduces pressure to control emotions or reactions in front of a crowd. This setting allows couples to express themselves more freely and authentically, resulting in heightened emotions and magical moments.

First-looks offer couples a moment of tranquility before the hustle and bustle of the day commences. Weddings can be hectic, with family and friends wanting to share in the joy, leaving little time for couples to pause and savor the occasion. This opportunity allows couples to connect and fully appreciate their special day before the whirlwind of celebrations begins.

The reveal at the altar won’t spoil the excitement! On the wedding day, both of you will still be filled with overwhelming emotions as you stand at the altar.

For numerous couples, the first-look serves as an opportunity to alleviate pre-wedding nerves and jitters. During this moment, partners can embrace each other for as long as they desire without the pressure of reciting vows. It also provides a chance to shed any tears beforehand, potentially averting emotional moments at the altar.

CONS OF HAVING A FIRST-LOOK

If you are superstitious or deeply value tradition, the first-look option may not be suitable for you.

Since incorporating a first-look means introducing an additional event earlier in the day before the ceremony, you will need to be prepared earlier.

Generally, initial glances are kept private, so your parents and wedding party may not witness the first moment you see each other. If you are unsure of their opinions on this tradition, simply inquire and consider their input before making a decision.

Despite the perceived privacy, being surrounded by photographers and videographers during such intimate moments can be unsettling. However, our photographer will strive to blend into the background seamlessly.

Some couples may feel pressured to display emotion on demand, leading to further unease. If this resonates with you or if a first-look doesn’t feel right, remember that you are not obligated to follow traditions.

FINAL DECISION

When deciding on whether to have a first look, it can be a challenging choice that may involve the preferences of numerous family members. Consider your schedule, the lighting conditions, and your personal feelings about the situation. Remember, ultimately, you can always change your mind, even on the day of the event! A skilled photographer will assist in managing any adjustments seamlessly and efficiently to optimize time wherever and whenever necessary.